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I Lit a Candle
Series
In this section we will share
revelations that we receive during
our special prayer time. The title
comes from the fact that I light a
candle when I sit before the Lord
because it helps me focus. The
candle has no special powers; it’s
just a conveyor to the spiritual
realm for me.
The revelations come raw
and unedited. If you are left
with questions after reading
them, please seek the
answer by going to “source.”
In other words, although you
may certainly contact us, and
we welcome you to do so,
you will be richly blessed
when you seek answers
directly through your own
prayer and meditation. Our
intent here is to help
stimulate your personal
communion with God
Please visit this section on
a regular basis, because
we will be adding to it
continuously…
as new revelations come;
we share them.
Recently I have been working on prayer
and have learned that prayer is more
about listening than talking (see Romans
8:26), so I simply lit a candle and sat
quietly before the Lord.
I went before the Lord
because of the passing
of a family member.
While the other relatives
were attending the funeral
(or “Homegoing
Celebration,” as I prefer
to call it),
I was in my prayer room
listening to spirit. The
word that Spirit spoke to
me that morning is
“reconnection.” What that
means in this context is
that we are all spirit. Our
true essence is spirit. We
are for a time wrapped in
flesh. We have a material
existence, but we never
lose our true spiritual
essence (for reference
see I Corinthians 15).
God was saying that it
was time for our loved
ones to “reconnect.”
Although we connect to
our spirit while in the
flesh, when we make our
transition our connection
becomes complete and
unfettered.
Furthermore, prayer is
really “reconnecting” with
God as opposed to talking
with God as we have
customarily come to
believe.  And through our
reconnecting with the Spirit
of God we reconnect with
the Spirits of the departed.
God is spirit and they that
worship Him must worship
Him in spirit and in truth.
(St. John 4:24)
Recently I had an ordeal with my son that hurt
me profoundly. The gift that it brought to my
spirit was that it caused me to probe the depths
of my love for him. I envisioned the night (some
twenty years ago) when I sat up all night with his
mother in labor, awaiting his arrival into the
world. When he was finally born – at 9:30 the
next morning—I was the first one to hold him.

As I flashed back to that memory, three
revelations came to me: (1) there is nothing that
he can do that change his last name – he will
always be my son; (2) although I may not like
what he does, it simply cannot break my love for
him; (3) this is a metaphor for God’s love toward
us – it cannot be broken despite our behavior.

This morning I took communion. Although I have
been taking communion for years, I finally
realized that it is the blood that binds us all
together in an unbreakable bond of love. It is
our heritage through Christ. It is impossible for
our behaviors to break the love that binds us in
oneness with God. When we take the broken
bread, it symbolizes the broken pieces of our
lives that get fused together by the blood. As we
become whole, we become less suspicious and
judgmental of those around us. Just as our
brokenness finds chaos, our wholeness finds
light.
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